Since my daughter came into my life, a lot of issues in this society have come to the forefront of my mind. One such issue is how kid unfriendly American society seems to be. From the time that little pee stick turned blue, I sought employment with the awareness that employers do not like pregnant women.
You can read up on this and other issues in The Shriver Report which features articles by everyday mothers from all over the country as well as superstar mom Beyonce.
This experience got me to thinking: how can I get my career going so I can have the money and time to be a good mom? As a childless adult, it was easy to just pull a double shift or get a second job when I wanted to pay down a debt or take a trip. With a child things are a little more complicated. You can't trust all of your family members to do things properly, and those who will are not always free to look after your little ones.
I decided to make myself a more worthy candidate in the job market by becoming fluent in Spanish with the Rosetta Stone program.
It is at a discount right now, but I'm not sure for how long. The program is downloadable on up to 5 devices, which is perfect for a busy mom like myself. Also, bilingual jobs are in high demand, since the Spanish-speaking populace has grown more than ever before in the U.S., making it a good choice for me. Many jobs pay $1 more an hour for entry-level bilingual employees. The program claims I can be fluent in 6 months if I complete a 30 minute course every day. To be fair, I am breezing through the first of 5 lessons because I took (and passed!) Spanish in college. I will keep you guys posted on my experience, but so far so good.
This is Realest Mother Dearest signing off. Comment below on how your approach to career goals changed after you had a child.
Monday, March 24, 2014
Friday, March 14, 2014
Breastfeeding is the most natural option to feed a child, and it is stirring up controversy yet again.
The mother pictured above is Ashley Nicole, and she is the girlfriend of Miami Dolphin's linebacker Phillip Wheeler. Her photo went viral on Instagram because her exposed breast was deemed inappropriate by some.
The world is so upside down and backwards. How is is that a woman breastfeeding is disgusting but drinking cow's milk is normalized? I'm confused.
I won't draw out the subject since a lot of my sentiments are expressed in Demetria L. Lucas' blog on The Root website.
Tell me what you think.
This is Realest Mother Dearest signing off.
Thursday, March 6, 2014
Have y'all ever heard of herbal birth control???
I first found out about this option while incorporating turmeric into my diet as a detox assist. I research all supplements, because even thought they are from the earth, so is poison ivy. That is when I discovered it is to be avoided during pregnancy and nursing, and it is said to be a natural birth control. According to the healthy home economist, there are several herbs that aid in safely delaying pregnancy without the risks commonly associated with mainstream birth control such as breast cancer, osteoporosis and sterility. Here are some examples. I am not a doctor folks, and I am not aware of the dosing, so do your own research.
This site and others suggest using Queen Anne's Lace as an herbal supplement to prevent pregnancy. It is said to have been highly effective in the olden days, and the herb is one of the two plants that yielded the hybrid we know today as the carrot (the other plant is the sweet potato).
Neem oil is another natural birth control remedy. This oil boasts hair growth properties as well as a potent spermicidal lubricant. On the other hand, it is said to have a potent and offensive aroma, so try at your own risk. I don't want to smell like a garbage pail kid, especially not during sex.
There are many more interesting herbs listed for such use, so look into it and seek the advice of a seasoned holistic practitioner if you are sincerely interested in making herbal birth control part of your lifestyle. Comment below if you or someone you know is already doing so. This is Realest Mother Dearest signing off.